MY WORDS TO YOU
From Markey's Heart

Dear Queens: Embracing the Turning of the Year

As the final days of the year slip quietly into history, many of us feel the pull to pause. It’s a time for reflecting on what was, honoring what still is, and dreaming of what could be. For professional women, this moment can be both tender and intense—an intersection of our ambitions, responsibilities, and personal hopes.


The close of the year often brings a mix of emotions. Perhaps you’re celebrating hard-earned victories—a promotion, a new business milestone, or simply surviving days that stretched you to the brink. Maybe you’re mourning unmet goals or grappling with the tension of wanting more while feeling drained by the race.


This is the moment to remind yourself: You are not your achievements, your setbacks, or your to-do list.

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Looking Back Without Judgement

Let’s allow ourselves to glance in the rearview mirror without the weight of self-criticism. Reflect on the lessons learned, even in the moments that didn’t go as planned. Remember the courage it took to show up, even when you felt unsure. Think of the lives you impacted—colleagues, clients, friends, and family members—simply by being you. As professional women, we often demand perfection from ourselves. But perfection isn’t what defines growth. It’s the willingness to learn, adapt, and keep moving forward, no matter how imperfectly.


Looking Ahead With Intention

The beauty of a new year lies in its possibilities. It’s a blank slate, inviting us to craft not just resolutions, but intentions—deep, meaningful commitments to ourselves and the lives we want to create.

  • What would happen if you prioritized your well-being as fiercely as you chase your career goals?

  • How could life shift if you gave yourself permission to say no to what drains you and yes to what fuels your soul?

  • What dreams would you pursue if fear weren’t standing in your way?

Let this new year be about alignment. Aligning your work with your values. Aligning your goals with your deepest passions. Aligning your self-worth with the truth of who you are—not what you achieve.


Giving Yourself Grace

As you stand at this threshold, give yourself permission to feel all the things—the pride, the grief, the anticipation, and even the fear. Trust that every part of your journey has prepared you for what lies ahead.


And if you need a reminder, here it is: You’ve already done the hard things. You can do this too.


Here’s to a new year filled with courage, clarity, and unapologetic joy. Let’s walk into it with our heads high, our hearts open, and our belief in ourselves unshakable.


With love and solidarity,

XO Dr. Markey

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